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2/17/18: Unconsciously Choosing Paradox (Part Five, Disobedient Civility)
"Civility is claiming and caring for one’s identity, needs, and beliefs, without degrading someone else’s in the process.” ----- Tomas Spath and Cassandra Dahnke, Founders, Institute for Civility in Government -------------------------------- It's a normal weekday on [...]
2/16/18: Unconsciously Choosing Paradox (Part Four, Bringing it to the Table)
“It’s partly because we are neuro-biologically hardwired for belonging and connection. We’re hardwired to want it, and need it so much, that the first thing we do is sacrifice ourselves and who we are to [...]
2/15/18: Slow-Cookin’ Chili Sauce
I can feel it burn Smacking my lips And the caldron churns As I wiggle my hips Yea... it’ll make you move It’ll get you hot Like the kind of grove You just can’t stop [...]
2/14/18: Unconsciously Choosing Paradox (Part three, Happy Feet, Missing the Beat)
He was so lonely. Among all these people and while actually engaged in an interaction with a person looking straight at him… ----------------------------------------------- As I sat with my good friend in another part of the [...]
2/13/18: Unconsciously Choosing Paradox (Part two, That Lonely Feeling)
"Everyone knows that experience of being surrounded by people and feeling completely alone." —— Brené Brown ------------------------------------- I was at a live music venue with a few good friends when this man I barely know approached [...]
2/12/18: Unconsciously Choosing Paradox (Part one, Conscious Unconsciousness)
"I think our need to push away the word “paradox,” and the need to — our need for either/or, not “and,” is driven by our lack of capacity for vulnerability. It’s really hard to straddle [...]